Money Talk Matters

I say to you remember the saying “Misery loves company” – alright that is even true when people are in debt. Prime example – how many people have come to you personally and shared about the financial habits of their spouse or financial problems they are experiencing? Hmmm – do you know and I am sure you do, you cannot solve their financial problems? What would happen if you told that husband or wife, you should go home and talk with your spouse about this?

Imagine the person being vented to giving a recommendation to that person to go and talk WITH their spouse. Oh marriages would be changed because communciation is taking place on a new level. Yes, a new level because they probably have been arguing about it instead of talking about it.

If you are listening to someone fussing about their financial situation day after day, week after week there can come a time when all of a sudden you begin taking on that same negative attitude about your finances. When in all actuality at the start of their venting your finances were probably fine. But you continued listening to them and relating to them.

Misery loves company but you do not have to be a part of that misery. You can separate yourself because you are in a different place of growth and being grateful for what is taking place in your life. The next time that friend or colleague comes to you with a sour face and prepares to vent that misery – protect yourself so that you do not become miserable too.

Yes, DEBT is no fun. It is even worse if you do not take any action. CHOOSE today to change YOUR LIFE. It is all up to you and no one else.